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Rather than living in regret about things undone, look back and identify what you want to change and achieve going forward.
As we approach year-end, don’t be too quick to sign-off on your plans for next year, if you haven’t yet thoroughly reviewed what happened this year.
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As my coach and I were planning for my Olympic build-up in 1988, one of our key objectives was to arrive in Seoul, South Korea, and have absolutely no regrets leading up to that moment. We wanted to know that we had done everything possible – everything within my potential – to arrive at that moment, the night before my race, and know we had done all things well. I wanted to race that day with no regrets.
It’s vitally important that we do that as well, as advisors and as people. As we get to the end of the year [we want] to be able to look back and reflect upon it and learn from it, especially as we’re receiving a lot of encouragement about planning for the new year and talking about goals and objectives, as I talk about too. But, oftentimes we’re not encouraged to reflect back and look at what we wanted to do and some of the things we wanted to aspire to achieve within our business, within our lives, and realize we didn’t take those steps when we should have taken them.
I’m a big fan of Gary Keller’s book, The One Thing, and as I was re-reading this for about the fifteenth time, came back to this page that says this:
“When people look back on their lives, it is the things they have not done that generate the greatest regret. . . . People’s actions may be troublesome initially; it is their inactions that plague them most with long-term feelings of regret. . . . So make sure every day you do what matters most. When you know what matters most, everything makes sense. When you don’t know what matters most, anything makes sense. The best lives aren’t led this way.”
[Have] no regrets [when] you move forward.
As I mentioned, that’s exactly what we had for my Olympic swim. And that’s what you need to be having as we roll into 2020 – deciding that when you arrive at December 12, 2020, one year from today, you’ll have no regrets.
So what do you need to do to ensure that you arrive there knowing that?
It’s a phenomenal way to live. It puts you out front and has you achieving exactly what you are able to achieve most: your fullest potential where loads of people are impacted positively and you know you’ve put your best foot forward and done the greatest job you could do.
I look forward to bringing you another Distraction-Proof Advisor Idea next week.
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Paul Kingsman is a sought-after expert on how to be distraction-proof. Through his speaking, writing, and coaching, he teaches financial services professionals how to maintain focus and take practical daily steps to successfully grow their businesses and achieve outstanding long-term results. To find out more about Paul and how he can equip you or your team to achieve your own outstanding results, visit PaulKingsman.com.
"2021 has been a great year for my business, and a lot of that was because of what I learned from you, Paul. You've been an advisor, so you get it! Thank you so much for your invaluable transformative coaching and advice!"
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