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No One at Million Dollar Round Table Shined Like Dennis

Dennis and I in New Orleans

Dennis and I in New Orleans

Last week I had the honor of being the closing speaker at the 2015 Million Dollar Round Table Annual Meeting in New Orleans, where I met Dennis, who communicated some of the most profound things I heard during my trip.

Unfortunately most people left the meeting without hearing Dennis’ timely advice nor seeing his passion for what he does. Dennis did not get to share on the main stage, nor did he present at any breakout sessions. In fact, he didn’t even attend the MDRT event. Dennis was the shoeshine guy at an office building five blocks from my hotel, and I had the privilege of sitting in his chair the morning before I presented at MDRT. During our conversation while he cleaned and polished my shoes, he poignantly and powerfully encapsulated what so many gifted speakers try to communicate. Dennis is a diminutive man, who has shined shoes for most of his life. He spoke about passion and how it fuels excellent performance.

He told me, “So many guys come downstairs, sit in my chair, and watch me shine their shoes. Smart guys, strong guys. They see what I do and think they can do it themselves and save eight or ten bucks. I won’t see them for a couple of weeks, but then they’ll come back. They tell me their arm is so sore from rubbing their shoes and confess they can’t get them to look like I can. They look at me, just this little guy, and wonder how I can keep shining all day, every day.”

“You know why they can’t do it?” he asked me, with a big grin.

“‘Cause they’re not passionate about shining shoes:  to them it’s just a chore. Not for me. Me—I’m passionate about getting those shoes so clean. You feel great when your shoes are shined, and you’re ready for the day. I get a chance to help people feel like that when I shine their shoes.”

As we spoke, it was evident that Dennis was a master of his trade. He eagerly told me about how different leathers respond to dirt and how, if you don’t understand the leather, you’ll only succeed in covering over the grit and wearing out your shoes sooner.

As he was finishing, he stood upright in front of me and looked me in the eye. “Are you ready to speak?” he asked.

“Absolutely,” I told him.

“Of course you are!” he agreed. “You’re more ready for this afternoon than you’ve ever been. When you walk on stage, you’ll be so ready. I know you will be—I shined your shoes!” With that we parted. My talk went great, and I went back to see Dennis the next day to thank him again for the part he played in my preparation.

Dennis took pride in his work and was passionate about performing his job excellently. He took care of small details that make a big difference and saw the importance of how he impacted others’ lives.

We each have something important to offer.

  • What are you consistently doing excellently to improve the lives of others?
  • Can you verbalize the significance of what you do?

Even if others don’t recognize the magnitude of what you do for them, knowing the value and importance of what you do will make a great difference to your attitude and approach. Recognizing the positive impact you have in other people’s lives gives your day-to-day routine purpose. Being certain of your purpose and seeing your role in the larger scheme of life fuels your passion, which provides motivation and excitement about what you do.

Take time to reflect on the value of what you do, and be excellent.

Paul Kingsman

Paul Kingsman

Paul Kingsman is a sought-after expert on how to be distraction-proof. Through his speaking, writing, and coaching, he teaches financial services professionals how to maintain focus and take practical daily steps to successfully grow their businesses and achieve outstanding long-term results. To find out more about Paul and how he can equip you or your team to achieve your own outstanding results, visit PaulKingsman.com.

4 Comments

  •    Reply

    Great story Paul. How is it that shoeshine folks (men and women) often have the best insights? My favorite quote that I heard from a shoeshine professional was at the Morningstar conference. He was explaining that he chose to work while his peers chose to complain about lack of work and poor wages. His attitude? “Ones is better than nones”.

    •    Reply

      Thanks Rob and good point. So many people overlook the importance of making the smaller things count. Often overlooked with this approach is that they can never be best prepared for bigger things if they treat and view the smaller activities and opportunities with contempt; almost as if they’re beneath them.

  •    Reply

    Paul, thank you for sharing this great story. Its a terrific reminder of taking pride in whatever job you do!

    •    Reply

      Glad you enjoyed it, Michael. There’s a verse in the Bible that says, “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your heart.” Dennis personified that approach. Hope your week begins well today.

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